Are yu hurt? Have yu been cheated? Have yu been left alone? Do yu feel shattered? Are yu planning to quit everything? Before yu do that, just spend few minutes yu have here reading this. This may help yu quit the pain instantly.
FORGIVING SOMEONE WHO HURT YU IS THE BEST WAY TO GET AWAY FROM THE PAIN YU ARE GOING THROUGH. THE SOONER YU FORGIVE FOR WHAT THEY DID, THE SOONER YU WILL BE FREE FROM ALL THE PAIN RELATED.
LET US EXPLORE WHY IT WORKS :-
Someone yu are with did something and yu got hurt. Now yu are mentally devastated. And yu are in deep pain that yu cannot express to the world. Even if somehow yu express it to the world, yu will always have the sadness that yu couldn’t express it with the person. Yu feel bad that the other person who is “responsible” for the pain yu are experiencing is unaware of that. Well, let say if yu managed to let them know. What’s next? Yu either want them to apologize, or nothing at all. If it is all about apologizing, that when they ask for apology, yu can either forgive them or yu won’t. If yu forgive them, the end yu were looking for pain has arrived. But if don’t, then this time, yu are the only one “responsible” for yur pain. So, forgiving the person who hurt yu, is the best and easiest way to end yur sadness.
Now, how to forgive the other person if they are not talking or haven’t asked yu an apology? Aha, great question right? Yu just packed me with the question. Sorry dear, but yu haven’t.
Yu see guys, when we forgive someone, that forgiveness should come from yur heart. Verbal forgiveness is not forgiveness at all. It is incomplete without the emotion. At the end, all what matters is, did yu forgive them from yur heart. Forgiving from words, and still keeping the pain, will never serve the true purpose of forgiving.
SO HOW TO FORGIVE FROM HEART ? :-
Try this. Its very easy. Pick up yur cell phone. Wear yur headset. And start a song that yu like the most. Doesn’t even matter if its a romantic or sad song. What matters is, the song hud be yur favorite. Put it on replay. Now, close yur eyes and listen to it one tym. Whatever thoughts yu get, don’t resist them. Even if it is related to the person who hurted yu. Let it flow. Now, when the song begins again, feel the very first moment when yu met that person. Make it clear. And go to them, gently, and smile, and tell them, I FORGIVE YU FOR WHATEVER YU DID AND GOING TO DO. And leave from that place. Now, open yur eyes and look around. The difference in the ambiance will be amazing. It will make yu more happy. And all yur sadness, pain ends then and there itself. Yu are transformed. And yu are ready to make yur life more better. Nothing is there to stop yu. Yu see guys, the only thing yu need to do is – TO FORGIVE. Afterall, this is at the end going to happen, so why don’t we do it earlier. 🙂
FORGIVE – IT HELPS.
I believe it helped yu. 🙂
FROM SOLE TO SOUL – SUCH IS LOVE.