HOW TO END THE PAIN YU HAVE BEEN SUFFERING BECAUSE OF SOMEONE ELSE EASILY?

Are yu hurt? Have yu been cheated? Have yu been left alone? Do yu feel shattered? Are yu planning to quit everything? Before yu do that, just spend few minutes yu have here reading this. This may help yu quit the pain instantly.

FORGIVING SOMEONE WHO HURT YU IS THE BEST WAY TO GET AWAY FROM THE PAIN YU ARE GOING THROUGH. THE SOONER YU FORGIVE FOR WHAT THEY DID, THE SOONER YU WILL BE FREE FROM ALL THE PAIN RELATED.

LET US EXPLORE WHY IT WORKS :-
Someone yu are with did something and yu got hurt. Now yu are mentally devastated. And yu are in deep pain that yu cannot express to the world. Even if somehow yu express it to the world, yu will always have the sadness that yu couldn’t express it with the person. Yu feel bad that the other person who is “responsible” for the pain yu are experiencing is unaware of that. Well, let say if yu managed to let them know. What’s next? Yu either want them to apologize, or nothing at all. If it is all about apologizing, that when they ask for apology, yu can either forgive them or yu won’t. If yu forgive them, the end yu were looking for pain has arrived. But if don’t, then this time, yu are the only one “responsible” for yur pain. So, forgiving the person who hurt yu, is the best and easiest way to end yur sadness.

Now, how to forgive the other person if they are not talking or haven’t asked yu an apology? Aha, great question right? Yu just packed me with the question. Sorry dear, but yu haven’t.
Yu see guys, when we forgive someone, that forgiveness should come from yur heart. Verbal forgiveness is not forgiveness at all. It is incomplete without the emotion. At the end, all what matters is, did yu forgive them from yur heart. Forgiving from words, and still keeping the pain, will never serve the true purpose of forgiving.

SO HOW TO FORGIVE FROM HEART ? :-
Try this. Its very easy. Pick up yur cell phone. Wear yur headset. And start a song that yu like the most. Doesn’t even matter if its a romantic or sad song. What matters is, the song hud be yur favorite. Put it on replay. Now, close yur eyes and listen to it one tym. Whatever thoughts yu get, don’t resist them. Even if it is related to the person who hurted yu. Let it flow. Now, when the song begins again, feel the very first moment when yu met that person. Make it clear. And go to them, gently, and smile, and tell them, I FORGIVE YU FOR WHATEVER YU DID AND GOING TO DO. And leave from that place. Now, open yur eyes and look around. The difference in the ambiance will be amazing. It will make yu more happy. And all yur sadness, pain ends then and there itself. Yu are transformed. And yu are ready to make yur life more better. Nothing is there to stop yu. Yu see guys, the only thing yu need to do is – TO FORGIVE. Afterall, this is at the end going to happen, so why don’t we do it earlier. πŸ™‚
FORGIVE – IT HELPS.

I believe it helped yu. πŸ™‚

With love
Yurs
ACHSHEI
FROM SOLE TO SOUL – SUCH IS LOVE.

-: WORRIES AND HAPPINESS :-

When yu have nothing – yu are worried. And when yu have everything – yu are still worried. So, when are yu happy? When yu have nothing, yu are worried that yu got nothing to be happy about. Yu cannot enjoy life and all. And when yu got everything, yu are worried that yu may lose yur belongings. Yu fear of losing what yu love and yu end up worrying. The reason of worry is changed, but, the worry is there. No matter what yu do, there is worries at the end. It is just a waste of time praying for a time without problems and worries. If yu are praying for a time or life that is without problem, i say, yu are praying for something that cannot happen as exactly yu wanting.

A LIFE WITHOUT PROBLEMS OR WORRIES IS LIKE A KNIFE WITHOUT SHARP EDGE – Ai

So, when are yu happy? ONLY WHEN YU CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. Only when yu realize what happiness is. HAPPINESS IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT – IT IS BUT A CHOICE THAT YU MAKE. HAPPINESS IS THE REFLECTION OF YUR FEELINGS OF LOVE.

Want to be happy – then get more feelings of LOVE. When yu love, yu are not afraid. FEAR IS THE RESULT OF GREED. LOVE RESULTS IN JOY – Ai

BEFORE YU COMPLAIN THAT THE WORLD IS DIRTY – YU MIGHT NEED TO CHECK IF YUR GLASSES ARE CLEAN OR NOT – Ai. πŸ™‚

I believe my small script on WORRIES AND HAPPINESS helped yu.

Yu are precious
I LOVE YU
With love
yurs
Achshei
from sole to soul – such is love

-: HOW TO GET RID OF FIGHTING WITH PARENTS AND INCREASE THEIR LOVE FOR YU :-

What makes yu fight? Well, irritation. And what irritates yu? That yur view on something was not given acceptance or attention by yur parents. Now, no one likes their views to be ignored. Right? So did yur parents. Well, what to do? The solution is quite simple thou – once yur view is given attention or acceptance, yu will feel good, and that results in happiness. Yur happiness will help yu to end the fight. Ofcourse. But, how to make them listen? BY LISTENING THEM FIRST. πŸ™‚ remember this – IF YU WANT “THEM” TO LISTEN – LISTEN TO “THEM” FIRST – Ai.

There is another reason why young generation loose their temper easily to their parents but not to others. Yu know why? Because, they “think” they don’t have anything to gain from their parents now. A human nature it is – that they pay respect to those from where they gain something. Now, yu don’t loose temper with yur gf/bf soon, because – yu are gaining something. But what about parents?
“Oh! I don’t have anything now to gain from them….i can make things my own now. I can work, and earn. Why shud i depend on them now?”
These mindset about ourselves that we are CAPABLE of doing things for us without any HELP from our parents is the reason we loose control over them. But wait a minute – just rewind what yu said – i am CAPABLE of doing things without their HELP. Are yu sure? Yes, yu are capable my dear. But, who made yu CAPABLE? Haven’t yur parents HELPED yu to become this CAPABLE – wud yu have been able to even write yur own name? Wud yu even had any name? Wud yu even stayed alive? Now yu can say – raising their children is the responsibility of a parent. NO ! It is not their RESPONSIBILITY my dear friend. It is but their LOVE towards yu that made them do things for yu. Nowhere it is mentioned or ruled out that A PARENT MUST RAISE THEIR CHILDREN. Still, they CHOOSE to do that for yu. They HELPED yu becoming what yu are now. Yu are CAPABLE of reading this – because they HELPED yu to read and write. They paid for yur education. They spent sleepless night for yu so that yu can sleep well when yu were sick. Is it a responsibility? Its LOVE my dear. Don’t foolish yurself naming it RESPONSIBILITY.

When yu HELP someone – don’t yu expect to get atleast a THANKYU from them? What if yu don’t get it back? Well, yu will try to keep yur nature same untill one day when yu realize that no matter how much yu HELP him, he is not only showing no gratefulness for yur help, but also fighting with yu. What wud yu do then? Yu will cut him her off from yur life. Why? He didn’t valued yu. Well, did yur parents did the same? Still wud yu mistake it calling that its their RESPONSIBILITY? They are human as human as yu are dear. They too FEEL.

We pray to invisible GOD to help us from troubles and have GOOD life. But we forget to see the visible GOD who always stood beside us no matter how many times we criticized them.

THINK BEFORE YU INK – Achshei

Because, once yu INK it – then no matter how many times yu THINK – the ink will always leave the mark of it. INK yur thoughts and feelings by THINKING carefully.

Still, if yu have reasons to fight with them – tell me, and i will SURELY, DEFINITELY give yu TEN other reasons to THANK them instead of FIGHTING them.

Trust me, just tell them, that THANKYU FOR RAISING ME MAKING ME CAPABLE OF WHAT I CAN DO – WITHOUT YU, IT WUD HAVEN’T BEEN POSSIBLE. Just these lines will melt their heart and will accept yu and yur views.

Hi believe my effortless effort helped yu UNDERSTAND YUR PARENTS. Remember –
“HEART GETS HURT WHEN HEART IS THE ONE WHO HURTS – Achshei”

YU ARE PRECIOUS
I LOVE YU
WITH LOVE
YURS
ACHSHEi
From sole to soul – such is love

ONIONISM

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Life is like a onion. It has many layers. Layers of happiness, sadness, intelligence, foolishness, joy, sorrow, and all that yu can count. Each layer is covered by another layer. But there is no specific pattern on layers thst layer of sadness is the first one and then comes the layer of happiness. They are just layered around. We peel off one layer just to find another layer under it. But what we exactly do is – WE KEEP PEELING IT OFF JUST TO SEE WHAT’S HIDDEN INSIDE – THE TRUTH. But, what is the truth? That there is NOTHING inside the onion, it was all in what yu have peeled off. THE LAYERS WERE THE TRUTH. But yu have been busy in peeling it off to find something that wasn’t there. The truth of onion lies in the layers of onion. That is what makes an onion.

Similarly – we kept ourselves busy in peeling off our life’s experiences one by one just to find out the so called TRUTH without realizing that these experiences are the TRUTH. We do not give importance to cherish – to live the moment we are having. We run or work or think to live the moment we want. But when that moment arrives, we do the same – we run for another moment – thinking that another moment is worthy than this one. The layers named happiness, sadness, joy, sorrow, grief, pleasure – feelings – are what makes LIFE.

LIFE IS LIFE WHEN YU CHOOSE TO LIVE – NOT WHEN YU LEAVE TO LIVE – Achshei

If yu are lO-Oking what is the HIDDEN TRUTH of life – then LIVE the experiences yu are having and the experiences yu are making. The realization of LIVING LIFE is the TRUTH. If yu are still searching what is inside the onion/life – then yu will find the answer that yu missed what was important in looking for something that was not there. YU MISSED THE LAYERS.

PEEL THE LAYERS – BUT DON’T THROW IT AWAY – USE IT. BECAUSE, ONCE YU PEEL A LAYER, YU WILL FIND ANOTHER LAYER ONLY – Ai.

I believe my onion theory helped yu understand what is life.

Yu are precious
I love yu
With love
Yurs
ACHSHEi
from sole to soul – such is love

PRAYER

We all pray. Sometimes once a day, sometimes twice and sometimes we keep praying whole day. We pray for many things. We pray with our complete heart. But after we finish praying, we start asking many question to ourselves. Questions that weakens the belief in our prayers. Questions like – Will it come true? How will it happen? How much time it will take? And so on. And when we see no single improvement in the current situation or when we see no way by which our wish come true, we start believing that our prayer isn’t listened. This is the time when we have two things in our mind :- EITHER TO STOP PRAYING or TO KEEP PRAYING. But what happens exactly when yu choose these options? Let’s go further into it.
OPTION 1 β€ͺSTOP PRAYING‬ :-
When yu choose to stop praying – yu start β€ͺβ€Žcomplaining. Complaining that why God is always like that? Why he always ignore yu and yur prayers no matter how deeply from heart yu have prayed. Why why why? And yu begin to feel bad for getting ignored and yu keep feeling bad because yu feel ignored. Well, if yu have stopped praying, then stop complaining too. Yu don’t have any right to complain when yu are not participating in it.
OPTION 2 β€ͺKEEP PRAYINGΒ :-
When yu choose to keep praying – Yu are actually doing it with a broken belief. Yu wouldn’t have chance to choose second option if yu kept praying. If yu choose the second option that means yu have stopped praying once. We stop praying when our belief is shaken and broken. And when yu continue to keep praying, yu do it with the same broken belief.Β Yu forget to recover the belief on the first hand. What happens when yu pray with broken belief? Yu start thinking that there may be chances that somewhere yur prayers won’t be answered. Yu keep thinking about yur past experiences where yur prayers were not answered. And yu feel bad because of those experiences. Yu pray with those feelings. Guess what yu are doing? Yu are complaining. Yu are repeating the option 1, i.e to stop praying in the name of keep praying. What will be the result? Yu will get more reasons to complain. πŸ™‚
So what should we do? How should we pray that our prayers get answered? What exactly is the proper way to pray?

In order to get the answers to these questions – yu must know what prayer is. Let me help yu understand what prayer is –

“PRAYER IS A NECKLACE OF EMOTIONS PAIRED UP WITH WORDS ON THE THREAD OF FAITH. IT LOOKS BEAUTIFUL WHEN WE MAKE. BUT IT MAKES THE PERSON MORE BEAUTIFUL WHO WEARS IT – Achshei”
When yu pray – yur words aren’t important but yur emotions are. Whatever emotions yu are feeling when yu pray that emotion is exactly praying. Not yur words. So, instead of watching yur words – yu should watch yur emotions. It is what yu must give importance to. God is not words – GOD IS EMOTION – GOD UNDERSTANDS EMOTIONS.
Now, once yu finish praying – LEAVE THE PRAYER AND LIVE THE PRAYER. This is very important to understand and to apply too. When yu pray something, LEAVE that prayer and LIVE that prayer. When yu start LIVING that prayer, yu will see Yur prayers getting answered. smile emoticon And thus, yu will feel more happy and yu will be in a vibrational field of receiving.
Remember – “WHEN YU ARE OPEN TO RECEIVE – YU RECEIVE WHAT YU ARE OPEN TO – Achshei”.
Hope my effortless effort helped yu to understand what prayer really is. smile emoticon
if yu have any doubt or any questions – feel free to contact me.
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Yu are precious

With love

Yurs

Achshei

From sole to soul – such is love

MEDITATION

Meditation –
Many people asked me how to do meditation. What is the best way to meditate. What are the benefits of it.
Guys – i personally feel that before yu move further to do meditation – it is vital to know what is meditation. As per me which i came to know – MEDITATION IS THE REALIZATION OF THE CONNECTION BETWEEN YUR OUTER WORLD AND INNER WORLD. This connection is always there. Even if yu r aware of it or don’t. It is more like a bridge that connects two opposite direction. The bridge is there. All yu have to do is open yur eyes and look at it. The moment yu see it – yu are mentaly relaxed that yu can travel in both directions easily. The realization of this connection is meditation.

HOW TO DO MEDITATION –
When someone ask me how to do meditation – the only questn that comes in my mind is – HOW DO YU SEE? Yu simply open up yur eyes and yu see. Yu dont strain yur eyes to see. Do yu? It is same with meditation. Observing the connection between yur inner world and outer world – the process of observing is meditation. Before yu meditate – it is vital to know that what is meditation. Rest is – observe the bridge. For example – yu are going to a party and yu are about to wear a dress. Yur inner world is where yu decide which dress to wear. Yur outer world will look exactly which yur inner world decided. Here the connection is the decision. The observation of the decision will make yu realize that both world was affected by this bridge. Hope yu got it. πŸ™‚

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF MEDITATION –
Truly speaking guys – there is only one benefit. Meditation transforms yur inner world so beautifully that whatever situation yu are in – it shows yu all the possible option to overcome the situation. And that too instantly. Its more like yur room. There are two options – either yur room can be completely messed up or beautifully arranged. If it is messed up – then whenever yu need something instantly – yu wud have to search everywhere. And ofcourse – yu won’t find it easily as it may be hidden under yur stuffs. It wud take lot of time and eventually yu get irritated. Irritation then leads to disturbances. Disturbance will lead yu to anger. And wherever there is anger there is d’anger’. Yu don’t want that option….right?
But if yur room is arranged – every stuff will be visible. Hence – yu will find it instantly. Yu r far away from rush, irritation, disturbances and anger then. M sure yu all know what yu can achieve without these things. Right?
So – this one benefit is actually all the benefit one can ask for. πŸ™‚

So guys – how to do meditation? I say – OBSERVE THE CONNECTION. Rest is as easy as ABC. πŸ™‚ All Beautifully Controled. πŸ™‚

Hope yu guys like my effort here. I blv yur queries to meditation is somewhat solved. Still if yu have any doubts – feel free to ask me.
Myself – Achshei

FROM SOLE TO SOUL – SUCH IS LOVE

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